A Harrison Barnes – Do What You Want To Do, Not What You Think You Should Do

If you have a job or are pursuing a certain career primarily because you think you should, or because others think you should, you are making a huge mistake. You need to understand that if you keep doing this, you are never going to be truly happy. You need to be living the life and having the career that makes you happy. The voices that you hear inside yourself, which tell you to pursue a certain profession or be a certain thing, are often not your own voice. They are the voices of your parents; they are the voices of your peers in school; they are the voices of the people you associate with at work.

via Job Search Guru | A Harrison Barnes, Career Advice, Job Search, Change In Profession | Harrison Barnes | Try the Career Coaching Club!.

Why do you do what you do?  Easy question but sometimes you may not like the answer.

More Intelligent Life – Thought for Today 01.27.12

Advice to people at the beginning of their careers: do not imagine that you have to know everything before you can do anything. My own best work was done when I was most ignorant. Grab every opportunity to take responsibility and do things for which you are unqualified.

Advice to people at the middle of their careers: do not be afraid to switch careers and try something new. As my friend the physicist Leo Szilard said (number nine in his list of ten commandments): “Do your work for six years; but in the seventh, go into solitude or among strangers, so that the memory of your friends does not hinder you from being what you have become.”

via THE 60-YEAR JOB: FREEMAN DYSON | More Intelligent Life.

I really wanted to post this when I first read the article.  But I was in Chicago, sitting in a Cosi, working on a laptop that should have been replaced five years ago.  I didn’t have my usual software tools, but I digress.  I loved this advice and I know you’ll love it too.

Do Positive Emotions Increase Life Satisfaction?

The answer is yes and they do it by building resilience. University of North Carolina professor Barbara Fredrickson has spent the past two decades looking into why we have positive emotions and what we do with them. She even has her own term for her work: positivity.

via Do positive emotions increase life satisfaction?.

As a general rule try to avoid overly negative people.

DIY investing and the IKEA effect – Abnormal Returns

This idea that more effort equals better outcomes or better quality seems to be inherent in us humans.

via DIY investing and the IKEA effect | Abnormal Returns.

Kind of a spin on the old saying of “work smarter, not harder”.

BTW the “IKEA effect” doesn’t exist in Oklahoma because the closest IKEA is 200 miles away in Dallas.

Seth’s Blog: The chance of a lifetime

The thing is, we still live in a world that’s filled with opportunity. In fact, we have more than an opportunity — we have an obligation. An obligation to spend our time doing great things. To find ideas that matter and to share them. To push ourselves and the people around us to demonstrate gratitude, insight, and inspiration. To take risks and to make the world better by being amazing.

via Seth’s Blog: The chance of a lifetime.

Cat Allergy Depends on When You Get the Cat

With apologies to all cat lovers out there

Acquiring a cat as an adult can lead to allergies to cat dander; the risk is lower if one had a cat as a child but higher if allergies were already present.

via Medical News: Cat Allergy Depends on When You Get the Cat – in Allergy & Immunology, Allergy from MedPage Today.

Bottom Line:

If you have allergies, asthma, or never had a cat as a child, don’t get a cat.

Networking for Survival – HBR

Without the network, you don’t get new ideas into your organization, you don’t see trends and issues that affect you and your customers, you don’t grow and develop your people with new challenges and opportunities, you aren’t attractive for young talent, you don’t learn about new technologies or business models, you don’t create new markets and you risk deluding yourself with your own ideas. You don’t increase your own value and advance your own career. Without the network you stagnate, you become stale. With the network you grow, provide meaningful and valuable solutions to your customers and not just survive, but thrive.

via Networking for Survival – Deborah Mills-Scofield – Harvard Business Review.

Great post and well worth reading.  One comment caught my eye,

When new forms of communication emerge, don’t just look at how to improve what you’re doing already, but at new ways of doing.

I immediately thought of social media as a new way of doing.  My transition from a dumb phone to a smartphone is a new way of doing (for me).  One of my new projects for the New Year is to create a Google+ business page.  Is this an “improvement”?  Not really.  It’s just a new way of doing.

Peace Be With You – Merry Xmas and Happy Holidays 2011

People are often unreasonable and self centered
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind people may accuse you of ulterior motives
Be kind anyway.

If you are honest people may cheat you
Be honest anyway.

If you find happiness people may be jealous
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow
Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough
Do your best anyway.

For you see in the end it was between you and God
It was never between you and them anyway.

Mother Theresa